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Speech Training 10: Answering The Phone by Norische
Filed in: training, speech

Again this is an area that is Owner specific. Each Owner has a specific way they wish the phone to be answered and whether or not they wish the slave to answer the phone at all. If the slave is to an[...]

Speech Training 11: Introducing Another Individual by Norische
Filed in: training, speech

When introducing an individual the slave should take a few things into consideration prior to performing the introduction. The first thing to take into consideration is the preference of the Owner. I[...]

Speech Training 12: Language Limitations - Vulgar or Disrespectful Language by Norische
Filed in: training, speech

I will simply state that most Owners prefer that vulgar or socially inappropriate language be illuminated from the common vocabulary of the slave. I find that it is rare that an owner enjoys a slave t[...]

Speech Training 1: Introduction by Norische
Filed in: training, speech

Knowing how to properly introduce oneself is extremely important. An improper introduction can taint the entire conversation and perhaps slew the initial impression in a detrimental manner. As the old[...]

Speech Training 2: How To Apologize by Norische
Filed in: training, speech

One slave I was training stated quite blatantly that she would not apologize when told to do so, because she felt she gad done nothing wrong. Whether or not she had done something wrong was irrelevant[...]

Speech Training 3: Addressing Superiors by Norische
Filed in: training, speech

When addressing a superior remember never to assume anything. When first meeting an individual ask how he or she wishes to be addressed…for example" "Please forgive me, I do not know[...]

Speech Training 4: Addressing an Equal by Norische
Filed in: training, speech

A slave should always behave towards another individual as if the other individual is a superior until told to do otherwise, this rule would include slaves and submissives. A slave should not assume t[...]

Speech Training 5: Addressing a Subordinate by Norische
Filed in: training, speech

To address someone as a familiar, for example using first names, is permitted only after permission has been sought and given. It is best to ask permission of your Owner as well as the equal and if th[...]

Speech Training 6: Affirmative Answers by Norische
Filed in: training, speech

When a slave gives an affirmative answer he or she can be as simple or as elaborate as the Owner wishes. Saying "yes" can be done is a vast array of different ways. For example if the Owner[...]

Speech Training 7: Negative Answers by Norische
Filed in: training, speech

When a slave gives a negative answer he or she can again be as simple or as elaborate as the Owner wishes. Saying "no" can be done is a vast array of different ways. Some Owners do not allo[...]

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