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Scene Speech by Author Unknown
Filed in: speech, scene

Scene speech is a language that we develop and use solely in-scene. We reserve this speech to augment and accentuate the atmosphere of the scene and often to heighten the sensory experience for both D[...]

Choose Your Words Carefully I: Don't VS Stop by Norische
Filed in: training, speech

Within the vanilla world there are many words that we use without consideration. Words that seem ordinary within one realm gain quite a different meaning within the realm of BDSM. Simple words that ar[...]

Choose Your Words Carefully II: Nude VS Naked by Norische
Filed in: training, speech

Within the vanilla world there are many words that we use without consideration. Words that seem ordinary within one realm gain quite a different meaning within the realm of BDSM. Simple words that ar[...]

Choose Your Words Carefully III: Humiliation VS Degradation by Norische
Filed in: training, speech

Within the vanilla world there are many words that we use without consideration. Words that seem ordinary within one realm gain quite a different meaning within the realm of BDSM. Simple words that ar[...]

Choose Your Words Carefully IV: Dehumanization VS Depersonalization by Norische
Filed in: training, speech

Within the vanilla world there are many words that we use without consideration. Words that seem ordinary within one realm gain quite a different meaning within the realm of BDSM. Simple words that ar[...]

Choose Your Words Carefully V: Want VS Need by Norische
Filed in: training, speech

Within the vanilla world there are many words that we use without consideration. Words that seem ordinary within one realm gain quite a different meaning within the realm of BDSM. Simple words that ar[...]

Speech Training 10: Answering The Phone by Norische
Filed in: training, speech

Again this is an area that is Owner specific. Each Owner has a specific way they wish the phone to be answered and whether or not they wish the slave to answer the phone at all. If the slave is to an[...]

Speech Training 11: Introducing Another Individual by Norische
Filed in: training, speech

When introducing an individual the slave should take a few things into consideration prior to performing the introduction. The first thing to take into consideration is the preference of the Owner. I[...]

Speech Training 12: Language Limitations - Vulgar or Disrespectful Language by Norische
Filed in: training, speech

I will simply state that most Owners prefer that vulgar or socially inappropriate language be illuminated from the common vocabulary of the slave. I find that it is rare that an owner enjoys a slave t[...]

Speech Training 1: Introduction by Norische
Filed in: training, speech

Knowing how to properly introduce oneself is extremely important. An improper introduction can taint the entire conversation and perhaps slew the initial impression in a detrimental manner. As the old[...]

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