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Online BDSM Dictionary

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:::Thwack:::
The noise made by the keys as they are tapped to spell out 'whip'.

:::Kneeling quietly:::
What subs post to remind their Masters or Mistresses that they are still online.

:::12" shaft of Blue Steel:::
A 6" hard-on.

:::safeword:::
what one uses when one is tired of typing.

:::Mmmmmmm:::
I'm cumming too hard to hit any other keys.

:::Lurker:::
Husband/wife is home, talk like we are "pals" ok?

:::"Not acting very submissive":::
"Hmmm...this sub has both a brain and an opinion...could be dangerous - she might figure out I don't have a clue as to what the fuck I'm doing."

:::sex or heat:::
Used to refer to female anatomy when someone really wants to say cunt, but is pretending to be a Lady.

:::"Oh, I see":::
You're completely nuts, how can I get away from you!!

:::Bonded:::
"She/he is mine so piss off...."

:::"Would you serve me a drink":::
I really want to see your ass wobble seductively.

:::collaring:::
Having to tell your Mistress the password to all your rooms.

:::"Hi, I'm new here!":::
You've been here for a few years but are trying out a new persona.

:::"Would you like to chat sometime?":::
"I really want to get into your pants."

:::"Yes, I'd love to chat with you!":::
You're going to score

:::"A wannabe":::
A term that subs/slaves apply to males they are not interested in.

:::Doms/Masters:::
The People Who get to sit in chairs or sofas

:::subs/slaves:::
The ones who have to kneel on various items (e.g. rugs, floorboards, pillows)

:::"Are you spoken for?":::
"If I make a move on you will I get flamed?"

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