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Munch Directory

Munch: A discreet social gathering of BDSM people, usually in a restaurant, with the people dressed in "regular clothing". People usually exchange tricks and beliefs about the BDSM lifestyle, in a non threatening situation. A great way to meet others in the BDSM lifestyle safely.

Come find a gathering near you! Your munch group not listed? Get it added here!


Common Ground
    Commongrounds is a group of people devoted to the pursuit of the D/s BDSM lifestyle. THIS is the common ground on which we all stand, regardless of race, gender, role or orientation. We are geographically located in Southern Indiana, Illinois, Western and Southern Kentucky. Our purpose is to educate and explore this wonderful lifestyle through lively discussions, interactive demonstrations, play parties and locally hosted munches.


    HEADSPACE is a pansexual Bloomington, Indiana University-based BDSM organization, dedicated to distributing information about safe BDSM play, and to providing opportunities for members to socialize. We hold monthly Munches, along with quarterly educational workshops, which in the past have included bondage safety, whipping techniques and safer sex and BDSM.

Fort Wayne

Summit City Munch

The Summit City Munch is a group based in Fort Wayne, Indiana. We are a discreet, friendly group that caters to people in all aspects of the BDSM lifestyle. We meet once a month in a public setting in a private area. What we have to offer is a support, education, and social group for adults who share these interests. It is our goal to provide a comfortable, safe, and tasteful environment where one can meet others of like mind. We also hold Play Parties in a private dungeon.


We are accepting of many lifestyles, sexualities and kinks and ask that those who join be accepting of others\' lifestyles and/or fetishes. We are not here to judge. Though we are accepting of others we also want to remind you that we are first and foremost a BDSM lifestyle group.


We also ask that you respect those members who are not "out" within the community and need to be discreet. Some of our members are very out about their lifestyle, but others are not. What you hear or see in the group stays in the group! We keep our membership confidential.


Though we encourage those seeking to meet others to attend we do not play matchmaker. We welcome the interested, the inquisitive, and the discerning to join us as we explain, explore, and enjoy. From newbie to veteran, we welcome all those with a sense of decorum to attend. We ask that you behave and dress in a vanilla (modest and respectable) manner while we are in public.


Message us to find out when our next meeting is and the location of the meeting.

You can subscribe to our journals, to get information on when our next munch is and if there is a presenter scheduled and who they are! (for Collarme)


Never attended a meeting? No problem we do require you come to the public meeting first unless you are known to the officers and you arrange with them to attend only the private portion of the meeting. Make your desire to attend the private party known to the officers and, if there is enough room for you/your group, they will give you directions to the after party.


ALM: Alternative Lifestyles of Michiana
    Our mission statement is simple. To promote and represent all alternative lifestyles in a positive and safe manner within our community by providing an accepting and comfortable meeting place for other's in the community. To make available an atmosphere in which to relax and have fun as well as promote community growth through education, activism and charity.

Michigan City & Valparaiso

    Our munch group meets twice each month. The first Sat of the month in Michigan City and the 3rd Sat of the month in Valparaiso. Please, join our yahoo group and join us at the table for a munch. There is always room for a new friend.