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Munch Directory

Munch: A discreet social gathering of BDSM people, usually in a restaurant, with the people dressed in "regular clothing". People usually exchange tricks and beliefs about the BDSM lifestyle, in a non threatening situation. A great way to meet others in the BDSM lifestyle safely.

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    Cuffs is a discussion group for people who want to learn more about kink, fetish, BDSM, and other expressions of safe, consensual, and non-exploitative human sexuality. Topics for meetings may include how to meet a play partner safely, flogging technique, negotiating a scene, sexual assault prevention, homemade toys, and others.

Membership is open to all ISU students, faculty, staff, and their spouses or partners. A limited number of persons not affiliated with ISU may also be invited to join.

Cedar Rapids

    CROP is committed to providing educational opportunities and a safe social atmosphere to people who are interested in the BDSM lifestyle and culture.

Des Moines

Corn Haulers
    The CORN HAULER (two words, not one) LEATHER AND LEVI CLUB is an alternative organization for gay men and women. Yes, we wear leather and/or levis as a statement, as a fashion or because of both reasons.

DADG Productions
    DADG Productions is a non-profit organization. We are a pansexual BDSM support group open to adults who are heterosexual, gay, lesbian, bisexual, or trans gendered individuals.

Iowa City

Naughty Iowa City Eccentrics
    We are a friendly organization focused on providing an environment so members interested in the lifestyle can interact, network, and even educate one other.

You should join this group if you have an interest in the lifestyle and if you are interested in associating with a community.

Quad Cities

    Riverbound is a pansexual BDSM group located in the Quad City area of Iowa and Illinois. (Davenport and Bettendorf in Iowa, and Rock Island and Moline in Illinois.) Our group is open to any 21 years of age or over interested in BDSM and D/s including lifestylers, casual players, or simply those with interest.

Tri-States area

TriStates Power Exchange
    We are a group of people from the Iowa - South Dakota - Nebraska tristates area interested in consensual power exchange.


    NEIPEX is committed to establishing a safe community environment for educational opportunities and social gatherings for those with a serious and personal interest in BDSM. Located near Waterloo, IA and surrounding areas. All members are welcome.