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Munch Directory

Munch: A discreet social gathering of BDSM people, usually in a restaurant, with the people dressed in "regular clothing". People usually exchange tricks and beliefs about the BDSM lifestyle, in a non threatening situation. A great way to meet others in the BDSM lifestyle safely.

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North Carolina

Adults Seeking Kink in North Eastern North Carolina (ASKNENC)
    ASKNENC is a pansexual educational, social (munch) and support group for adults who wish to learn, share and/or meet with other like-minded individuals who are interested in D/s (domination and submission), BDSM (bondage, discipline, sadism, and masochism), exploring different fetish interests, and similar alternative lifestyles.

Dominant Females & Submissives Alliance (DF&SA)
    Dominant Females & Submissives Alliance (DF&SA) is a not-for-profit organization, dedicated in an alliance between female dominants and submissives, while specializing in the mental, emotional, and physical dynamics which encompass these relationships.

Female Artists of Domination
    This organization was created in the Summer of 2002 to fill a need we saw in the BDSM community of North Carolina. It was created by and for Female Dominants. The members consist of Female Dominants (Dommes, Tops, Mistresses, Dominatrixes, etc.) and their admirers (female and male submissives, slaves and bottoms). We welcome het, bi and lesbian individuals whether you are male or female identified, but DO limit our Female Dominants to being genetically female.

Safe Sane and Consensual Network
    SSCN is a not-for-profit BDSM organization dedicated to providing education, support, and a social network for its contributors in a safe, responsible, and discretion-conscious environment.

    The Triad Area Leather Oriented Network (TALON) is a not-for-profit pansexual organization. Located in the Triad region of North Carolina, TALON serves people who share an interest in BDSM.

Triangle Munch Group
    We are a group of people in the Triangle Area who share an interest in Bondage and Discipline/Dominance and Submission/Sado-Masochism (BDSM ).


    TAAG is a BDSM group in the Asheville and surrounding areas of North Carolina. We are a heterosexual group. Experienced lifestylers and newcomers, 21 years of age and older, who have or are seeking partners of the opposite sex are welcome. We adhere to VOLUNTARY, INFORMED, and CONSENSUAL principles .


    The Charlotte Area Power Exchange (CAPEX) is a not-for-profit BDSM organization dedicated to providing education, support and a social network for its Contributors in a safe, responsible and discretion-conscious environment. CAPEX accomplishes its purpose through the regular offering of educational seminars, workshops, and panel discussion groups including knowledgeable and talented presenters from local, regional, and national avenues. Many educational events conclude with an evening social party.


S.P.A.N.K. (Southern Pansexual Advocates of Negotiated Kink)
    SPANK (Southern Pansexual Advocates of Negotiated Kink) is a private and pansexual D/s and BDSM education and support group. We are located in the Southern Piedmont and Sandhills region of North Carolina, with Fayetteville as the rough center of our hub.