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Munch Directory

Munch: A discreet social gathering of BDSM people, usually in a restaurant, with the people dressed in "regular clothing". People usually exchange tricks and beliefs about the BDSM lifestyle, in a non threatening situation. A great way to meet others in the BDSM lifestyle safely.

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Tidewater Pride


Black Rose
    Black Rose is a support, education, and social group for adults who share these interests in the context of caring relationships. Black Rose is a pan sexual group, open to those of any sexual orientation. It is our goal to provide a comfortable, safe, and discreet environment where one can meet others of like mind. We are not a swingers group or a sex club. We do not make referrals. We are not a chapter based organization.

Hampton Roads

Tidewater Individuals Exploring Domination
    Tidewater Individuals Exploring Domination or more commonly known as TIED is a pansexual based organization for those interested in domination, submission, bdsm and related fetishes. As a support group we provide educational and social opportunities for those in our community to learn from and meet others who share similar interests.


     We are located in Richmond, VA. You must be over the age of legal consent (21 years of age) to participate. This is a group that is not-for-profit, noncommercial, social, support, and education group for adults interested in BDSM, Pansexual and related topics. BDSM, Bondage & Discipline, Dominance & Submission, Sadomasochism, Body Art: tattooing, piercing, branding, scarification, etc. Pansexual: Open to all sexual orientations, including cross-dressing. We will insist on certain rules of safety, decorum and common etiquette. Consensuality and confidentiality are extremely important. We do have guidelines for the group and socials. We expect everyone attending any of the group functions to read them and abide by them.

VA SOCKS: Virginia Secret Order of Consensual Kink Society