Essays Tagged: Scene
BDSM Play Partner Checklist by Sovereign House
Filed in: negotiation, play, scene, checklist
The more information a Top knows about their bottom, the safer and more exciting their playtime can be. Remember… communication is the key to all relationships, BDSM and vanilla alike! Below i[...]
Scene Speech by Author Unknown
Filed in: speech, scene
Scene speech is a language that we develop and use solely in-scene. We reserve this speech to augment and accentuate the atmosphere of the scene and often to heighten the sensory experience for both D[...]
BDSM Toybox by Author Unknown
Filed in: toys, play, scene
A friend recently told me about a fly swatter he had that's "Texas size." Cool! I have a dozen or so little girl hair clips I found that are iridescent butterflies and dragonflies and bumble[...]
Before Scene: Interview by Norische
Filed in: negotiation, play, scene, checklist
Interview Name: __________________________________________________________________ Age ____________ Gender___________ Sexual Orientation ____________________ How Top wishes to be addressed. _______[...]
Can I Get That In Writing: Basics Of Negotiations by Norische
Filed in: how-to, negotiation, play, scene
Negotiation – a discussion between two or more individuals, in which each individual presents a format of requirements, desires and limits, during this discussion each party will review the sugg[...]
Submissive Male in Society by Bluedeacon
Filed in: submission, scene
Q: What does it mean to me to be a submissive male in this society? Good question. First thing that *does* come to mind, is, contradiction. This society has not gone through male liberation, and does[...]
Observation and Analysis of a Scene by Sergeant Major
Filed in: scene, observation, analysis
The observation and analysis of a scene is intended as an objective process where certain constants are looked for during the conduct of the scene. It is not intended to be an appraisal or evaluation [...]
Anal Odyssey by Mistress G and Alan
Filed in: health and safety, anal sex, scene
Why incorporate anal play into D/S scenes? It feels good; the area is sensitive and erotic, interconnected to sexual organs Produces a feeling of vulnerability and of penetration and p[...]
Our Absolute Lifestyle by Master Eso
Filed in: leather, lifestyle, scene
When I came out in the BDSM scene some 6 years ago, after practicing my lifestyle in the privacy of my own home for some 23 years, I did so under the naïve assumption that the B[...]
An Esoteric View: Civility and Incivility in The Scene by Master Eso
Filed in: etiquette, scene
In this essay, God is mentioned and referred to in numerous instances. This might be bothersome to some of us, although it really should not be. For God is just another description, [...]
