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Violet Wands by Lady Gwyneth Rose
Filed in: toys, electroplay
Ahhh, violet wands... the lovely little glass tubes that become a luminescent purple and emit purple little sparks when they are activated. The violet wand has been around for a very long time indeed [...]
Orientation 12: Patience by Norische
Filed in: training
Patience is the hardest thing for a slave to learn, and hence it must be one of the first things they are introduced too. A slave is always waiting on his or her owner, waiting to serve, waiting to b[...]
Presentation 3: Formal Appearance by Norische
Filed in: training
Formal, what is formal? Formal attire normally refers to eveningwear, or clothing worn for formal occasions. Black tie: Formal occasion, males should wear tuxedoes; females are expected to wear eveni[...]
Speech Training 5: Addressing a Subordinate by Norische
Filed in: training, speech
To address someone as a familiar, for example using first names, is permitted only after permission has been sought and given. It is best to ask permission of your Owner as well as the equal and if th[...]
Orientation 7: Respect by Norische
Filed in: training
"Respect as defined by Webster's Dictionary may be used as a verb or noun, and comes from two Latin combinations: re-, back + specere, look at). Our modern meanings include: 1. to feel or show ho[...]
Short Jokes by Various
Filed in: humor
Sue and Sally meet at their 30th class reunion, and they haven't seen each other since graduation. They begin to talk and bring each other up to date. The conversation covers their husbands, their chi[...]
Presentation 7: Apology by Norische
Filed in: training
An appropriate apology is a combination of words, attitude and stance. A well structured, well thought out apology is half the battle…however the right amount of humility added to this recipe o[...]
Speech Training 4: Addressing an Equal by Norische
Filed in: training, speech
A slave should always behave towards another individual as if the other individual is a superior until told to do otherwise, this rule would include slaves and submissives. A slave should not assume t[...]
Orientation 10: Timing by Norische
Filed in: training
Timing is something that is frequently overlooked when it comes to training a slave. However, the aspect of training is actually very important. A slave that arrives too soon will make an owner feel r[...]
Jingle Belles by Unknown
Filed in: humor
Dashing through the house In a corset and high heels Hands tied behind our backs How naughty we do feel! Belles in bondage tight Make our spirits bright What fun it is to tie and gag A naughty bitch [...]
Orientation 8: Trust by Norische
Filed in: training
The first thing that must be stated about trust is that it is a critical portion of BDSM. From the moment a slave is cuffed and blindfolded he or she is helpless and at the complete mercy of the owner[...]
Speech Training 9: Answering The Door by Norische
Filed in: training, speech
This is one area that is Owner specific. Some Owners do not wish their slaves to answer the door, others demand it; some wish the slave to remain invisible, some wish the slave to act as a butler and [...]
Orientation 9: Duty / Responsibility by Norische
Filed in: training
It is the duty of each and every slave to be honest. Remember that your word is your honor, and without honor you have no place as a slave. It is the duty of each and every slave to be obedient. Obed[...]
Orientation 6: Communication by Norische
Filed in: training
It is the responsibility of the slave to learn how to communicate properly and to appropriately. Good communication is a key element for an owner/slave relationship. There are a few simple instruction[...]
Orientation 5: Honesty by Norische
Filed in: training
Honesty is something that starts long before the slave meets the owner. It begins within the individual. The slave must be able to be honest with him or herself, to know his or her own imperfections, [...]
Desiderata by Max Ehrmann
Filed in: inspirational
Go placidly amid the noise and the haste, and remember what peace there may be in silence. As far as possible, without surrender, be on good terms with all persons. Speak your truth quietly and clear[...]
The Responsibilities and Duties of a Dom by LES IS MORE(m)
Filed in: dominance
Being Dominant/submissive is a state of mind. It is not a sex act, it is not a game, and it is not a role. It is a state of being and is totally asexual (neither male nor female)First and foremost, a [...]
Why Old Guard? by David Masterson
Filed in: old guard
In the late 1940s early 1950s it was reported that a group of WWII veterans came back to the united states to settle into their respective places in society. However, some of these veterans still want[...]
Slogans and Signature Lines by Unknown
Filed in: humor
Build a thousand bridges in your lifetime, but suck one dick, are you known forever as the bridge builder? Violet wands. They're everywhere you expect them to be. --Visa They're always after me lil [...]
Observation and Analysis of a Scene by Sergeant Major
Filed in: scene, observation, analysis
The observation and analysis of a scene is intended as an objective process where certain constants are looked for during the conduct of the scene. It is not intended to be an appraisal or evaluation [...]
Returning to Vanilla by luna[KM]
Filed in: general knowledge, vanilla
Could you please tell me of any sites that I may check into on the transition from a D/s relationship back into a vanilla relationship? I find myself with that dilemma now. And it is very difficult th[...]
One Woman's Views on Submission by dark whisper
Filed in: submission
Who am I? I have asked myself that question at least a thousand times, especially since I began to walk the path of submission. This path is not easily trod at times. It challenges one to move [...]
The Gift by Author Unknown
Filed in: inspirational
The Gift and the Giver, the Rebel, the Thief, and the Stranger and his Glue The Giver was alone, and the Gift unused: the Giver felt lonely, and sought to find someone worthy of the Gift. The Rebel[...]
Submission by Choice: How to Work Your Way Back to Yourself by luna[KM]
Filed in: submission
Submission has been called a gift. It has been said to be a natural characteristic. Submission is also a choice. When I first entered the lifestyle, no one would have mistaken me for a submissive. I a[...]
Waxing/Candlemaking 101 by SadistOz
Filed in: wax play
Many of us have found that having a lit candle around the house is an enjoyable and calming aspect of decoration. Sometimes I have multiple candles lit around because the glow of the candles is very t[...]
BDSM Tech Support by Anonymous
Filed in: humor
L: Hi. I was trying to do the candle wax dripping thing, and it's not working. B: Have you lit the candle? L: I need to light it? B: Yes, if you want it to drip wax. L: How do I light it? B: With[...]
On Cane Making by From USENET
Filed in: caning, toy-making
I have taught classes on making and caring for canes. Soak the ratan in the bathtub for several hours which will allow you to straighten it. Cut into lengths. Swing the cane, using each end to s[...]
Twas the Night Before Christmas... Kinky by MangledTulip
Filed in: humor
'Twas the night before Christmas, when all through the domain, Not a subbie was stirring, (they were tied down with chain) The shackles were hung by the chimney with care, And the St. Andrews cross st[...]
